Tuesday, 30 October 2012

Goodbye Little Home

I've made my fair share of complaints about our home since starting this blog. The lack of space, the too close for comfort neighbours, and of course, my total disdain for my kitchen. But now that it is time for us to move on to bigger and better things I can't help but feel a little sentimental. There are a lot of wonderful memories in this home. 

Our first home. 

Before
After
The home that we bought wide eyed and naive back in 2003, as an unmarried, childless couple who had never experienced financial commitment beyond a personal loan for a small car. The home with the lavendar purple walls, cheap carpets and a leaky bathroom who's modest dimensions only came to light as I unpacked the boxes of kitchenware and promptly ran out of room. 
Before
After
Since then we have put our own stamp on this place, we have replaced flooring, painted walls, rendered exteriors, installed light fittings, air conditioning and blinds. We have renovated bathrooms, relocated hot water systems, landscaped gardens and erected a gigantic garage and carport. But none of this makes me sad to go, it's the life we have lived while in this house that I feel so connected to. The incredible, life-changing moments that have shaped us and made us the people we are today, these are the things I think of when I think of this house. 


In the time we have lived here we have got engaged and married, had (almost) 2 children, started a business, completed degree's, changed career's, celebrated milestones, mourned losses, forged long-term friendships, gained true independence and become adults. We have loved, fought, forgiven and discovered who we really are. 

These last nine years make up what is possibly the most significant period of our lives and as excited as I am to be moving onto the next stage, I never want to forget the things we have achieved while we have been here.


This little home will always be special to me and while we may have outgrown its physical dimensions, the impact on our lives is far greater than its square metres would suggest. 


I hope the new owners will enjoy living here just as much as we have and look forward to all the memories we have ahead of us in our new home.

Does your first home hold a special place in your heart? 

Do you think a house can have an impact on the path your life takes or am I just hopped up on pregnancy hormones?!?

Joining in with Jess at Dairy of a SAHM for #iBOT, who is taking a leap into a new bloggy home.


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I think you become very attached to where you live if you are happy there - might be the location that leads to lifestyle or the actual building itself. Even a tree in the yard. But that all moves with you.
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Yes Lydia I think it's the lifestyle that we have had here that I am so attached to, the location of this house has allowed us to enjoy so many things that we may not have had living somewhere else. Fortunately we are staying in the same suburb so I very much hope that the lifestyle remains the same.
I'll always remember the first apartment I rented with my husband. It was tiny, cramped, a little bit dirty and way too close to the other people in the building. It was also cheap and got us both through our university degrees and the start of my husband's career. It was the first place that felt like mine, and I got to share it with him. :)
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
There is something oh so special about that first place you shack up together in isn't there? We rented a couple of places before we bought this house and while we weren't there very long and didn't invest in the changes that we have here, I still have find memories of the time we had there, if only for the lack of mortgage!
currently renovating our first home together... but with the knowledge that we will move eventually because its not big enough :P
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Oh we tried Yvette! We have renovated this little place to it's maximum I think and were it not for the expanding business as well as expanding family we would probably stay. It doesn't seem to matter what size it is though, it's never big enough ;)
oh wow this post really struck a chord with me - we are that unmarried childless couple saving for our first home, almost felt like i was reading a post from my future!!
All the best with the move
#teamIBOT
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
How freaky that must be Lyndal! It's so exciting to be buying your first home, I am definitely more picky this time which is why we ended up building but I don't think anything will beat that feeling of buying your very first home. Good luck with your purchase!
I can totally understand the feelings you've expressed. My husband and I have been in our house for 5 years and recently had a chance about possibly moving and just talking about it made me sad. This is the place we came home to the day after our wedding, and the house we bought our daughter home too. So many wonderful memories that we would leave behind. I'm sure you will make many more amazing memories in your new house.
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Yes I think we will too but like you this will always be the place we come home to as newly married husband and wife and of course the only home Skye has ever known. I really excited about the next stage of our lives but this home will always be special :)
I totally understand. We haven't lived anywhere for a really long time, except our current house, and I know that when we leave here I will miss it so much. It's not the walls or the house itself, it's all the memories.
I should write something really encouraging now, but this post has made me all emo and sad for you, so maybe I'll just cry as well?
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Sorry Jess, I never meant to make you sad! I just keep telling myself how much I am going to love having a shiny new kitchen :)
The renovations look amazing. What a difference!! I'm sure the next owners will make some wonderful memories too.
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Thank you! It's a completely different house to when we first moved in, but the new owners seemed to love it just as much as we do so I feel good about moving on.
My husband and I are still living in our first home and , like yours it is impractically small for our family. I still remember the first day we inspected it and fell in love with it immediately. We've had our ups and down in it, have renovated a little and will probably renovate a whole lot more to fit us all in!
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Some homes just 'feel' right don't they? It's funny how I have come to appreciate our place even more for its small but functional layout since we have been looking at building. It's just a shame we aren't going to all fit here anymore!
I get attached to homes to, but like you it is all sentimental, the memories, the smells, the noises.
I have kind of had to force myself to get over my attachments, being an expat means we move around a lot.
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That would be so tough Carly, especially when you find somewhere that feels like home. I guess it gives you a clearly defined memory of different stages in your life though which can be a good thing.
I totally get that attachment. We live in a shoebox but it's ours, our first home - There won't ever be another first home for us! x
1 reply · active 648 weeks ago
Nothing like that first home is there? The house you throw your whole self into making your own even if it is bursting at the seams. Buying our next house is still exciting but it's a much more methodical and practical this time around x
Beautiful post. It's hard leaving a place that was not just a house, but your home, especially one that you have put so much work into and so much of yourself into.
We've just moved on to bigger and better things, but I will always hold a special place in my heart for our little 3 bedroom shoebox we left behind - lol. But seriously, it was a pink flea infested dump when we bought it. We had a 2 year old son. When we left 2 months ago, the 2 year old was nearly 12, has 2 more brothers, and we transformed the house into something special, plus we have 10 more years worth of life behind us.
Good luck in your new home, and enjoy your new memories.
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Thank you Amanda. I have a feeling that I will only remember the good things about this house when we move rather all the things that made us want to move in the first place!
We're still in our first home and I'm sure will be for some time, but yes so many good memories will be hard to leave behind! We moved in before our eldest turned one, so it will be all our girls have remembered as they grow older.
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I think that is the hard part for me too, this is the only home Skye has ever known and even though she is not quite 3 yet, she has said many times over last couple of weeks that she doesn't want to leave our home.
Nothing like that first home is there? The house you throw your whole self into making your own even if it is bursting at the seams. Buying our next house is still exciting but it's a much more methodical and practical this time around x

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